Thursday, January 7, 2016

Where The Light Gets In

        She sits you down across from her at the table and the look on her face scares you. Scares you and you're not a man who gets scared easily. But the one thing you fear is written plain across her. And you see her wrinkle her nose in the way that tells you she's trying not to cry. Trying not to feel what she's currently feeling. And that scares you. It's written there plain as day though. And why wouldn't you know that? Haven't you spent the last five years loving this woman? Learning to read her like a book. Cause isn't that what love is? And the look she's giving you now that's not what you want to see. That's a look you've seen before. That's the look of her letting go. Your greatest fear. Her giving up on you. The first tear rolls down her cheek. It's too late. She's already made her decision. Many more tears will come. You know they will. Again, you know this woman better than you know yourself. And the way she's looking at you right now, that's not what you want. That's never a look you wanted her to put on you. Maybe that's not what it is though. Maybe there's something else. You can work through anything she's about to tell you. Is that right though? Can you do that? Are you willing to? Yes. Because you love this woman. And that's what love is.

        You reach across the table to take her hands and she pulls them away from you. And that single act, that single moment hurts more than anything she can tell you. Anything she can do to you at that moment will not tell you any more or hurt you anymore than what she's already told you by pulling away from you. No longer does she accept your touch. No longer will she accept your loving affection.

        You ask yourself what it is you did wrong. What is it you didn't do right? What more could you have acted upon. What more did you need to learn or unlearn or needed to change? What more could you have done for this woman to make her love permanent? You run it through your head a million and a half times in a matter of seconds. What did you do wrong? Maybe it wasn't you. Maybe you did everything right. Maybe it's her. Maybe she just didn't want to accept it from you. Maybe she was selfish. Maybe at the end of the day it wasn't you but her. But you hate yourself for thinking that because how could it be her? How could you blame her for any of this? You love her. And blaming her for any of this seems to taint that.

        She'll never think of you again. And you know that now in your heart. When she's cuddled with someone new. She'll never remember the cold nights you did that with her favorite movie. When her kids are having snowball fights she'll never remember climbing the hill in the winter and you falling on your ass getting her a walking stick and her thinking it was the most hilarious thing in the world. When it's pouring down rain she'll never remember how you laid your jacket down on the bench so her pants wouldn't get wet. She'll never remember you going out late at night to get her her favorite soup. Or the nights you rocked her to sleep because of the pain in her stomach. Or learning to cut pineapple for her. She'll never remember all of these things because once you're unlaced from her life you'll no longer matter. Because as much love as you gave her, it never filled her up. She never realized how much you really did.

        Didn't you try? Didn't you try everything in your power to make sure she loved you? You were devoted. Loving. Caring. You listened. In the end though what's it matter? To what end did it solve anything? You wasted your time for 5 years you wasted your love with this person and all you manage to learn was that it hurts. And that's something you can't stand anymore. Is it? No. You are cracked. You are broken. And you had thought she was the one to heal all that but just when you thought that there was no longer damage she hits you. And hits you hard. The pain breaks you for good now. And instead of crying you sit and stare at her. She tells you it's not you. But you know. And you can't react. You draw your hands in. You draw your heart in. You draw your mind in. And you know that you'll never love again because what the fuck is the point of love if it's never truly reciprocated? If it's never really given back to you then why would you give it away? No you'll keep it to yourself now. In your cracked box. The tears she cries mean nothing. The house you lived in mean nothing. The pain you felt now means nothing. And it won't ever again. Because these five years had become nothing more than just an exercise on how cracked you could become before you can't feel a thing.

        There's something you remember down the road. Sometime later. Something your mom would always say to you. Something that plays through your head as you start your car. You were going to be ok. Yes you're broken. Yes you're cracked. But the cracks...

                


                                        That's where the light gets in.


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